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Be delusional
If you are not delusional yet what the fck are you even waiting for? In today's entry, I will talk about how being delusional can literally change you in the best way ever. don't give up just shift your mindset.
Hello, my pretty swans welcome to another entry. Today we will talk about the art of being delusional. This entry will be divided into 3 categories:
What is being delusional?
The benefits of delusion
How delusion saved me without realizing
What is being delusional?
Being delusional is thinking that something that hasn't entered your life or something that isn't happening is happening. I know it is hard to explain but let me make it easier to understand. Sometimes when we are at the lowest point of our lives we tend to imagine the life we wished we had. We imagine our desired house, partner, money, friends, lifestyle... Literally, everything that can make us escape reality and make ourselves more comfortable in our own minds by imagining things we don't have or situations that haven't happened yet.
Now imagine this but within yourself. Imagine you aren't confident, a delusional person would literally wake up look in the mirror, and say "I am confident" even though they aren't and maybe they feel like sht but they wake up look in the mirror, and say "I am confident."This person is delusional and it's using the "fake it till you make it method." Some people may think this person is crazy because they are talking to themselves in the mirror and saying things that aren't true but the delusional person doesn't care because they believe in themselves.
The benefits of delusion.
Delusion can have multiple different benefits. One of them applies if you believe in manifestations, the universe, god, the divine, etc.. Basically, by repeating to yourself things or situations that haven't happened yet, you are attracting that into your reality because if you can visualize it, it is meant for you. No matter what happens if you visualize it it is meant for you and the more you visualize it the more big and blessed the thing would be.
Another benefit is that if you repeat, write, talk, or whatever about something that you know isn't true you still fake it and tell yourself that you are confident that you are an extrovert, or that you are independent. That is going to stick inside your mind. It's going to stick in your mind and you are going to end up believing it and acting as if you are confident or independent or even extrovert. Just fake it. Just believe that you are confident, believe you are independent, believe you are rich, believe you will get that job. Just believe in it, dream about it write about it manifest it my pretty swans. You need to manifest it.
How delusion saved me without realizing it.
So hear me out I am not going to hide myself. I tend to depend sometimes from people emotionally and tend to people please I even lacked confidence because I couldn't make choices on my own because I never wanted to be wrong I have always fear of failure and trying new things because I i felt wasn't confident, or had the skills to do it and present in an auditorium because I was scared of rejection.
So I started to tell myself and repeat to myself "You are confident, you are going to be confident, everything is going to be okay, because you are confident." I did that literally before every situation that I knew was goign to make me feel uncomfortable and out of my comfort zone. I'm not going to lie people looked at me weirdly before entering with me to the places because I was just saying these things out loud but. You know what? I still do it every time. And without realizing I became confident and a role model to all of does around me. And I didn't discover that till yesterday.
I was just about to enter with a friend a library that we didn't know if we had access and we were both nervous I was like kind of uncomfortable and she said. "You go first" I was so confused and I asked why and she said, "Because you always look so comfortable everywhere and you walk into places with so much confidence and you are confident within yourself." I couldn't believe my ears and then I realized that the people around me saw me as confident and secure. Without realizing it and from saying it to myself 100 times I became what I wanted to become a confident person. Just my faking it till I made it and by being delusional I had become my dream person.
So be delusional, fake it till you make it, and fck people's opinions, this is your life.
Hope you enjoyed my pretty swans
by J 🌺
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