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Why confidence and privacy are the most important things

Writer: J🌺
J🌺
Apr 22, 2023
3 min read

Do you ever wonder why confidence just makes people so hot and powerful? Well add privacy to that and you have a confident girl everyone wants to know about. In this post, I'm going to tell you how confidence and privacy bond together can make your life better




What is privacy?


Privacy means not exposing yourself in any situation. For example, you are in a place and one of your friends tells you his whole life, his problems, and everything that happened. Then they ask you, "Hey, what about your life, is there any drama?" Maybe you can tell them a little bit more about everything, but never tell them too much, because you are exposing yourself, and that gives people the opportunity to hurt you with what you have said too much and to attack you with things you have said to them. The same is true on social media. If you reveal too much about yourself and post everything you do, it can lead to people knowing everything about your life, and that can then be used in an argument to hurt you, or just cause people to lose interest in you because everyone knows everything about you. So privacy means keeping a part of your life to yourself.



What is confidence?


Confidence is the inner feeling that you can do several things, the feeling of knowing yourself and being so connected to yourself that you have control over certain areas of your life. Self-confidence is feeling safe and comfortable in your skin, it makes you feel strong, but self-confidence is not something you show. If you show confidence then people would see that you are trying to be better and that everything is a competition for you, it also seems like you are showing off your insecurity. To avoid this, you need to learn that you do not need to prove to people that you are confident because confidence radiates. You do not have to keep saying "I am so pretty, right " Tell me I am pretty" That's just like NO. Confidence would self-radiate. Let's put an example don't you sometimes have an outfit on your mind and when you wear it you find it so good on you? Then you feel powerful you feel confident honey. YOU FEEL CONFIDENT, THERE IS WHERE YOUR CONFIDENCE RADIATES!



So what if you bond them together?


So this is where the hot girl enters the room, my pretty soul. So basically this is simple after getting your confidence to avoid sending on a group chat, avoid posting those stories. Avoid doing that with the message of "I look so pretty right?" or "This just looks good on me fr" That just shows the biggest lack of confidence in the whole world it just shows that you are seeking validation with every post you do about you like it just looks like you feel alone and need peoples views to feel a company like honey please have a bit of self-love and self-respect. Of course, you can still post photos of your outfit or something that you like or a photo with your friends with comments you know phrases, and that stuff but avoid posting things about everything in your life and about you all the time. After mastering privacy add the confidence that you have I know it sounds gatekeeping but you need to keep your confidence to yourself don't share it and that will give you the perfect combo for creating an un-expose confident hot girl YOU WILL SLAY FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE HONEY I PROMISE, and remember a girl posts everything on social media but a woman knows how to keep the line between her posts and her personal life.


Thank you for reading <3

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